Clear signs of special feelings at work

Recognize the signs that your colleague has feelings for you

A warm office where two colleagues share a genuine moment.

Marie Kronau

01.09.2025 - 18:56

The dynamics in the office can be exciting, especially when feelings develop. Are you being particularly noticed by a coworker? Here are 20 signs that indicate someone likes you and perhaps wants something more. It is important to recognize these signals so that you can deal with them.

A common sign is that the colleague regularly tries to spend time with you. This can manifest through frequent conversations in the coffee kitchen, invitations to lunch, or even after work. If someone is consistently looking for ways to get closer to you, it could be a strong indication of feelings. Even small touches like a pat on the shoulder during a conversation can show that he or she wants to create a connection with you.

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Additionally, eye contact can play an important role. If a colleague often seeks your eyes and looks at you longer than necessary, it speaks volumes. A connection on this level can be attractive. If your colleague appears nervous or excited in your presence, it may also indicate that he or she feels more than just friendship towards you.

Colleagues engage in light banter and playful interactions.

Shared interests and activities

Sharing personal information and asking questions about your life can also be signs that your colleague has feelings for you. If someone is interested in where you come from, what you do in your free time, and what is important to you in life, it may mean that he or she wants to build a deeper relationship with you. This type of exchange is often the first step in developing an emotional connection.

Colleagues enjoy a shared hobby, fostering collaboration.

Interpreting body language clearly

If the colleague frequently enters your personal space during conversations, this is also considered a sign of interest. Another interesting observation is when your colleague watches you while you talk to others to see his or her reactions. This is often called 'jealousy,' but it may simply be an attempt to understand how you think about other people.

Close-up of two colleagues conversing with mutual interest.

Remember that communication is key to avoiding misunderstandings. If you recognize the signs, be ready to talk to your colleague to clarify the situation. Ultimately, it is important that you feel comfortable collaborating, regardless of how the relationship may develop. In any case, it is a valuable experience that can offer you new perspectives in your professional life.